Ask: Trouble Forgiving
From Ask ACIM Mentor:              I have a person in my life that I am having a lot of trouble forgiving.  Usually, when I have a problem with a person, I usually find something good to concentrate on.  By doing this, I have something to hold on to when there is a conflict.             But with this new person, I can't find any good in them.  Sorry if that sounds harsh but that is the total truth.  This person has done a lot of harm to people.  It's hard to ignore that - I know I'm supposed to believe that the world is an illusion and there is no loss, but it's very difficult to see people being victimized.             Is the Course saying I literally made this person up?              I am torn between the two concepts of cowardice and forgiving.  Sometimes I feel like the Course is asking us to "back down" which, in my mind, could easily be seen as an excuse for cowardice.  I think about this in terms of dealing with this person in the world.  In other words...